Relationship breakups happen every minute of every day.
If you have just gone through a break up with ex you may be wondering what the heck happened here? If this is a question you are asking yourself then you probably didn't have very good communication between the two of you.
You can usually see relationship trouble coming if you are talking deeply and honestly with one another.
Good communication skills are very important.
Too often people just think 'oh it's not that big a deal, I'll just let it slide".
This is a very dangerous way of thinking.
Little things over time can add up to be huge issues later.
Take care of things as they occur and while they are still small.
The best breakup advice I have is to avoid the break up in the first place.
If you are suddenly fighting with your mate more than usual, it could be due to a lack of communication.
If you are just now realizing that communication is an issue between the two of you, it could be that you don't know each other as well as you thought you did.
A lot of relationship trouble could be avoided if people would learn to be better at listening.
Many times we are darn good at talking, or yelling at our partner, but fall woefully short on our listening skills.
You need to be able to hear what they are saying, but also what they aren't saying.
When you learn to really hear your partner you will better understand their point of view.
With understanding you will be able to compromise so that both of you can be happy.
So if you are really intent on getting back with your ex, you will need to see if they will agree to get together and talk.
When you do get together, make sure you really listen to what they say.
You might start off with an apology for not listening to them as well as you should have in the past.
Once you get to the real root of the relationship trouble you've been having, see if you can work out a compromise you can both live with.
Often, you will not have a chance of getting back with your ex.
They may want to avoid dealing with a break up again.
This will be painful, but you will get through it.
The new knowledge you have can help you avoid a relationship breaking up in the future.
If you have just gone through a break up with ex you may be wondering what the heck happened here? If this is a question you are asking yourself then you probably didn't have very good communication between the two of you.
You can usually see relationship trouble coming if you are talking deeply and honestly with one another.
Good communication skills are very important.
Too often people just think 'oh it's not that big a deal, I'll just let it slide".
This is a very dangerous way of thinking.
Little things over time can add up to be huge issues later.
Take care of things as they occur and while they are still small.
The best breakup advice I have is to avoid the break up in the first place.
If you are suddenly fighting with your mate more than usual, it could be due to a lack of communication.
If you are just now realizing that communication is an issue between the two of you, it could be that you don't know each other as well as you thought you did.
A lot of relationship trouble could be avoided if people would learn to be better at listening.
Many times we are darn good at talking, or yelling at our partner, but fall woefully short on our listening skills.
You need to be able to hear what they are saying, but also what they aren't saying.
When you learn to really hear your partner you will better understand their point of view.
With understanding you will be able to compromise so that both of you can be happy.
So if you are really intent on getting back with your ex, you will need to see if they will agree to get together and talk.
When you do get together, make sure you really listen to what they say.
You might start off with an apology for not listening to them as well as you should have in the past.
Once you get to the real root of the relationship trouble you've been having, see if you can work out a compromise you can both live with.
Often, you will not have a chance of getting back with your ex.
They may want to avoid dealing with a break up again.
This will be painful, but you will get through it.
The new knowledge you have can help you avoid a relationship breaking up in the future.