You need to go back in time and see why you broke up.
Who left who for a start and for what reason.
Knowing your ex husband, who you had a history with, wants you back must make you feel quite ecstatic inside.
One moment heading for the divorce courts then wanting you back makes you wonder why? You need ask yourself these questions: 1.
Why does he want you back? 2.
Does he need financial support 3.
Need someone to stroke his ego again? 4.
Need somewhere to stay 5.
Has bad credit therefore cannot buy anything on finance needs a guarantor I don't know what your situation was before but you need to ask yourself some of the questions above or you will may end up with heartache.
You both must have had a reason for the break up and it must have been quite serious.
Weigh the pros and cons of returning to him and see what conclusion you end up with, you also may already be in a relationship which can put a whole new spin on the situation.
If you are involved with someone else and he is as well then you have got to take their feelings into account.
Who knows you may be happy with this new guy that you are with.
Don't put on the rose-tinted glasses, look at why your ex husband wants you back but also think of the heartache you felt when you both parted and also what you both had before you will not get back because of the time spent apart.
Sit down with your ex husband and discuss why he wants to get back together, why at this point and not earlier.
What you need to do is make sure you are doing the right thing as you do not want to cause yourself heartache again.
You may find that things were great without him and you were really good at being independent, not answerable to anyone, these are things you need to look at.
Who left who for a start and for what reason.
Knowing your ex husband, who you had a history with, wants you back must make you feel quite ecstatic inside.
One moment heading for the divorce courts then wanting you back makes you wonder why? You need ask yourself these questions: 1.
Why does he want you back? 2.
Does he need financial support 3.
Need someone to stroke his ego again? 4.
Need somewhere to stay 5.
Has bad credit therefore cannot buy anything on finance needs a guarantor I don't know what your situation was before but you need to ask yourself some of the questions above or you will may end up with heartache.
You both must have had a reason for the break up and it must have been quite serious.
Weigh the pros and cons of returning to him and see what conclusion you end up with, you also may already be in a relationship which can put a whole new spin on the situation.
If you are involved with someone else and he is as well then you have got to take their feelings into account.
Who knows you may be happy with this new guy that you are with.
Don't put on the rose-tinted glasses, look at why your ex husband wants you back but also think of the heartache you felt when you both parted and also what you both had before you will not get back because of the time spent apart.
Sit down with your ex husband and discuss why he wants to get back together, why at this point and not earlier.
What you need to do is make sure you are doing the right thing as you do not want to cause yourself heartache again.
You may find that things were great without him and you were really good at being independent, not answerable to anyone, these are things you need to look at.