Are you trapped in some old fashioned way of trying to make him fall in love with you? Have you been using the same tactics over and over again and it never works? Are you now looking at the tactics you've used over the years and wondering why it's not working? Read on and find out what you can do to get the results you've always wanted.
Many women today feel trapped between the super efficient professional they've molded themselves to be and the old fashioned notions they heard about all their lives.
Should they be strong and forceful or should they be meek and quiet.
One way to assess the amount of strength or meekness you display is to simply be attentive to the response of the man in front of you.
Is he put off by your overpowering professionalism? Is he intimidated by your lack of restraint or your very in-your-face attitude? Or perhaps he's bored by the quiet little mouse that you display.
Some men may be up to the challenge of a forceful woman and they'll shy away from the meek woman.
On the other hand, some men may have such a tumultuous lifestyle that to sit down and quietly converse with a pensive and introspective woman may be what they truly need.
But to know this, you have to tune into him.
Look into his eyes and watch for hints of boredom or perhaps he's even taking a physical step back from you.
Once you are in tune with him, allow time to get to know as much as you can about each other.
Find activities to do on each date and make sure those activities shed some light on the kind of person you are.
If you're the direct professional, perhaps having a fun date doing something wild and unexpected will show him your fun, light-hearted side.
And if you are usually quiet and reserved, try to find something that will give him a glimpse of the wild woman hiding behind that quiet facade.
Once he sees the complete and well rounded woman you are, it will be hard for him to resist.
Make sure every date with him leaves him wanting to discover more of you, though make sure it is the real you he is discovering.
Don't pretend to be something you're not.
After all, you want him to fall in love with you, not a pretend version of yourself.
Many women today feel trapped between the super efficient professional they've molded themselves to be and the old fashioned notions they heard about all their lives.
Should they be strong and forceful or should they be meek and quiet.
One way to assess the amount of strength or meekness you display is to simply be attentive to the response of the man in front of you.
Is he put off by your overpowering professionalism? Is he intimidated by your lack of restraint or your very in-your-face attitude? Or perhaps he's bored by the quiet little mouse that you display.
Some men may be up to the challenge of a forceful woman and they'll shy away from the meek woman.
On the other hand, some men may have such a tumultuous lifestyle that to sit down and quietly converse with a pensive and introspective woman may be what they truly need.
But to know this, you have to tune into him.
Look into his eyes and watch for hints of boredom or perhaps he's even taking a physical step back from you.
Once you are in tune with him, allow time to get to know as much as you can about each other.
Find activities to do on each date and make sure those activities shed some light on the kind of person you are.
If you're the direct professional, perhaps having a fun date doing something wild and unexpected will show him your fun, light-hearted side.
And if you are usually quiet and reserved, try to find something that will give him a glimpse of the wild woman hiding behind that quiet facade.
Once he sees the complete and well rounded woman you are, it will be hard for him to resist.
Make sure every date with him leaves him wanting to discover more of you, though make sure it is the real you he is discovering.
Don't pretend to be something you're not.
After all, you want him to fall in love with you, not a pretend version of yourself.