Do you want to figure out how win him back but feel stuck and not sure what to do next? It's not uncommon to hear women say that all their efforts only seem to make things worse.
Does this scenario describe you? You may be surprised at the real reasons your ex left.
Gaining insight into these reasons can give you the necessary edge you need to get him back.
We're also going to review how to avoid the mistakes that will only push him farther away.
A man wants to feel that his partner admires and respects him.
Most men don't leave because they want a younger, prettier or thinner woman.
So often you'll hear men say they are fed up with their partner nagging them.
The real message is that he wants his partner to see his good points instead of focuses on what she doesn't like.
To him it seems like nothing he does is good enough.
It's OK to tell him if something is bothering you.
Just don't lose sight of his good qualities and make sure you remember to express how happy you are with all he does for you.
Feeling overly anxious to win him back can lead you to act in a way that comes across as desperate.
It's likely he will become more distant if he feels you're chasing him.
Calling all the time, texting/emailing, sending love letters, apologizing for everything, promising you'll change, showing up where he is...
behavior like this will only backfire on you and make your situation worse.
Do the opposite.
If you back off and stop making yourself so available, he can't take you for granted any more.
Without any pressure, he will be naturally miss you again.
Because he can no longer take you for granted, it is very likely that he will naturally be more attracted to you.
Needless to say, you're going to have to do more than just give him space if you want to salvage your relationship and win him back.
It is, however, a dynamic that must be addressed.
If nothing else you'll be in a better position to move forward with your life one way or another.