Get a Girlfriend Back! First Moves You Should Make to Get a Girlfriend Back
After you have split from a girlfriend you still care a lot about you will naturally spend a lot of time with her on your mind.
If you decide that you do actually want her back you are going to have to spend a lot of time thinking first.
Now you have to have a plan.
It is no good going at this randomly trying to call her up or sending flowers or whatever lame idea you come up with next, sit and think this through for a couple of days before you do ANYTHING at all! Here I am going to give you some things to think about that will form the basis of a strategic plan of action to help get your girlfriend back.
First, how have you been behaving lately? Over a period of the last six months or so just what have you been like? Any chance you have been boring? Doing the same old things going to the same old places.
Perhaps you have been acting jealous or childish.
Stop and think about it from her point of view, do YOU need to make changes to yourself, do you need to be more considerate, or do you need to alter your lifestyle, too much drinking or hanging out with your mates? If after thinking this through you realize that there are positive things you can do then do them and do them quick.
If you split up because of a fight or argument over something or someone then apologize and let her see that you are genuinely sorry for your behaviour and show her that you are going to change your ways.
Once you get the message of change or regret over to her you can move on to show her a new and revitalized you that is going to make her want you back.
The best way to do this is to make her happy.
Sounds simple doesn't it well it is not and it's going to be hard work.
You are going to have to be kind, considerate, forgiving and patient all at the same time.
Furthermore you not only have to re-invent yourself but your relationship too! Put a lot of thought into what you are going to do together, plan something special for every weekend go somewhere different, go on a picnic, yes a picnic she will love it, and don't let her do the food, get yourself in the kitchen and put in some work.
Every time you see her offer her a chance to do something different, be it going to the movies, the beach, hiking, hell even go with her to the mall, yep that will be boring but a good relationship needs work, and she will appreciate it.
Now the other big way to change yourself is through communication.
before you see her before you call her think about what you are going to say! Plan your conversation, amuse her, be entertaining and if you can't be funny be thoughtful and kind.
Secondly when she talks to you LISTEN for a change pay attention and do not interrupt, any relationship is a two way thing with equal amounts of input.
From here on in things are usually straight forward, go slowly though do not rush things.
You can get your girl back you just need a strategy to follow.
It is actually much easier to speak to real people who have been there and done that, than to a pay a specialist to give you canned information about making relationships work.
Instead, it would be good for you to talk to people who have been there and survived the process of getting their ex partner back.
The most remarkable thing that I found following the end of my relationship was that there is a strategy that is easy to follow and proven to work for hundreds of couples who have used it previously.
If you decide that you do actually want her back you are going to have to spend a lot of time thinking first.
Now you have to have a plan.
It is no good going at this randomly trying to call her up or sending flowers or whatever lame idea you come up with next, sit and think this through for a couple of days before you do ANYTHING at all! Here I am going to give you some things to think about that will form the basis of a strategic plan of action to help get your girlfriend back.
First, how have you been behaving lately? Over a period of the last six months or so just what have you been like? Any chance you have been boring? Doing the same old things going to the same old places.
Perhaps you have been acting jealous or childish.
Stop and think about it from her point of view, do YOU need to make changes to yourself, do you need to be more considerate, or do you need to alter your lifestyle, too much drinking or hanging out with your mates? If after thinking this through you realize that there are positive things you can do then do them and do them quick.
If you split up because of a fight or argument over something or someone then apologize and let her see that you are genuinely sorry for your behaviour and show her that you are going to change your ways.
Once you get the message of change or regret over to her you can move on to show her a new and revitalized you that is going to make her want you back.
The best way to do this is to make her happy.
Sounds simple doesn't it well it is not and it's going to be hard work.
You are going to have to be kind, considerate, forgiving and patient all at the same time.
Furthermore you not only have to re-invent yourself but your relationship too! Put a lot of thought into what you are going to do together, plan something special for every weekend go somewhere different, go on a picnic, yes a picnic she will love it, and don't let her do the food, get yourself in the kitchen and put in some work.
Every time you see her offer her a chance to do something different, be it going to the movies, the beach, hiking, hell even go with her to the mall, yep that will be boring but a good relationship needs work, and she will appreciate it.
Now the other big way to change yourself is through communication.
before you see her before you call her think about what you are going to say! Plan your conversation, amuse her, be entertaining and if you can't be funny be thoughtful and kind.
Secondly when she talks to you LISTEN for a change pay attention and do not interrupt, any relationship is a two way thing with equal amounts of input.
From here on in things are usually straight forward, go slowly though do not rush things.
You can get your girl back you just need a strategy to follow.
It is actually much easier to speak to real people who have been there and done that, than to a pay a specialist to give you canned information about making relationships work.
Instead, it would be good for you to talk to people who have been there and survived the process of getting their ex partner back.
The most remarkable thing that I found following the end of my relationship was that there is a strategy that is easy to follow and proven to work for hundreds of couples who have used it previously.