Everyone who has ever had someone break up with them knows how bad it feels.
If you have had that happen to you, I know you never want to go through it again! Often, when you look back after a breakup, you realize that all the signals were there, and that you just didn't see them for whatever reason.
If you can remember those signals, it will help you to notice them better in the future, and it could help you to prevent a breakup, or even to get back with an ex after one! One very key signal that your lover may be thinking about ending your relationship is if they stop touching you as much as they normally do.
I don't mean just having sex or initiating it.
Of course, if they are no longer interested in sex at all, that's a pretty good sign that they are planning to break up with you.
But the amount of sex can go up and down in the healthiest of relationships, and that is perfectly normal.
More telling though, is if your partner no longer touches you in a purely affectionate and caring way.
If they used to hold your hand, for instance, or put their arm around you, but no longer do, this is definitely something to worry about.
And if they seem to recoil or look uncomfortable when you touch them in such a way, it's time to have a talk with your partner about how they are feeling toward you.
This is not a time to ignore the signals.
If you want to save your relationship, this is the time to act.
However, also keep in mind that there could be other reasons why your partner isn't receptive to being touched.
Perhaps their mind was on something else and your touch caught them by surprise.
Or maybe they aren't feeling well.
This is why it's really important to have a talk with your partner when you notice these kinds of signals, especially if they happen more than once.
Don't jump to the conclusion that they are going to break up with you, but do be aware and be ready to discuss what's happening.
Your quick response could make all the difference.
Another thing that could signal an upcoming breakup is when you know that your partner has lied to you.
Even if the lie seems like no big deal, it could mean trouble.
If your partner is so comfortable lying to you about something little and inconsequential, what's going to stop them from lying to you about larger, more important things? Again, this is time to have an honest talk with your partner about how they are feeling about you and your relationship.
Don't allow yourself to become overly suspicious and start looking for trouble, but do be aware of the kinds of things that could signal bigger problems.
In his book "The Magic of Making Up", T.
W.
Jackson offers all sorts of advice about relationships, from how to get back with an ex, to how to prevent a breakup in the first place.
If you believe you are seeing signs of problems and would like to stop them before they have a chance to ruin your relationship, this is a very helpful resource.
If you have had that happen to you, I know you never want to go through it again! Often, when you look back after a breakup, you realize that all the signals were there, and that you just didn't see them for whatever reason.
If you can remember those signals, it will help you to notice them better in the future, and it could help you to prevent a breakup, or even to get back with an ex after one! One very key signal that your lover may be thinking about ending your relationship is if they stop touching you as much as they normally do.
I don't mean just having sex or initiating it.
Of course, if they are no longer interested in sex at all, that's a pretty good sign that they are planning to break up with you.
But the amount of sex can go up and down in the healthiest of relationships, and that is perfectly normal.
More telling though, is if your partner no longer touches you in a purely affectionate and caring way.
If they used to hold your hand, for instance, or put their arm around you, but no longer do, this is definitely something to worry about.
And if they seem to recoil or look uncomfortable when you touch them in such a way, it's time to have a talk with your partner about how they are feeling toward you.
This is not a time to ignore the signals.
If you want to save your relationship, this is the time to act.
However, also keep in mind that there could be other reasons why your partner isn't receptive to being touched.
Perhaps their mind was on something else and your touch caught them by surprise.
Or maybe they aren't feeling well.
This is why it's really important to have a talk with your partner when you notice these kinds of signals, especially if they happen more than once.
Don't jump to the conclusion that they are going to break up with you, but do be aware and be ready to discuss what's happening.
Your quick response could make all the difference.
Another thing that could signal an upcoming breakup is when you know that your partner has lied to you.
Even if the lie seems like no big deal, it could mean trouble.
If your partner is so comfortable lying to you about something little and inconsequential, what's going to stop them from lying to you about larger, more important things? Again, this is time to have an honest talk with your partner about how they are feeling about you and your relationship.
Don't allow yourself to become overly suspicious and start looking for trouble, but do be aware of the kinds of things that could signal bigger problems.
In his book "The Magic of Making Up", T.
W.
Jackson offers all sorts of advice about relationships, from how to get back with an ex, to how to prevent a breakup in the first place.
If you believe you are seeing signs of problems and would like to stop them before they have a chance to ruin your relationship, this is a very helpful resource.