A relationship is a bond that can be easily broken.
  If not built up and kept healthy, they will begin to fizzle out.
  Break ups happen, and they are a trying experience for everyone involved.
  Sometimes, a break up brings out feelings of wanting to get revenge, and you feel you need to get back at your ex.
  Is this a good idea? One of the best ways to get back at your ex can actually also be the best way to get your ex back.
  It may show your ex that you still have feelings for them and want to fix the relationship.
  So, use these tips to not only get back at, but also to get back your ex.
  1.
  Do not be needy.
  You need to put up a strong front.
  By begging or appearing desperate, you are showing you are vulnerable and not faring well  with the break up.
  If you make your ex feel that things are fine and you are moving on, your ex may feel that they are still reeling from the break up.
2.
  Keep communication brief.
  This goes along with being strong.
  If you stay away and keep things quiet between the two of you, your ex may miss the dialoge and begin to realize how much they miss you.
  3.
  Do not be demanding.
  If you appear to be flexible, compassionate and sympathetic your ex may see a side of you they admire and want to get the communication going again between you to rekindle the relationship.
4.
  Get out of the house.
  Do not allow yourself to sit alone and be miserable.
 Get out with friends for fun.
  This doesn't necessarily mean to go out dating again, but by maintaining friendships and having a good social life, your ex may feel they really missed out on a keeper.
5.
  Remember who you are and be yourself.
  Your ex was attracted to you for who you were in the beginning, and can be again.
  Be positive of your self-image and feel good about yourself.
   Your own feelings of confidence may very well renew those feelings in your ex that were once there.