Fighting every day about the littlest things.
Spending less time together.
Not sleeping together.
These are the classic signs of a couple on the outs.
This is the time for you to make some changes so that you will be able to save your relationship with your girlfriend.
Hurry, because if you do not make some changes right now, she will be gone! Show Your Strength Never plead for your girlfriend not to leave.
This will only resolve her to leave.
Instead, show her that you are not fazed by her threats to leave.
Instead, drive home your points about why should she be staying.
She will respect that you will not cave.
Listen When She Speaks If you are reacting to everything your girlfriend is saying without really listening to her, you are not in control.
She will think you are just flailing in effort to make her stick around.
By listening to what she is saying and responding to each of her points, she will be impressed enough to stay.
Take a Cool Out Often the thing you want the least is the thing which is the best.
Give her some space to cool down.
Show her that you do not need for her to be around 24 hours a day.
Set a period of time in which you will not contact her and make sure she understands why you are doing it.
Lay Off the Gifts Now is not the time to ramp up the amount of gifts you are buying her.
She will know you are only buying them to keep her around.
This encourages this kind of behavior.
Only buy gifts if they are something you would normally buy her during your relationship.
Have a Romantic Dinner Going out to dinner is great, but it lacks personal charm.
Instead, you should have a dinner at home that you cooked.
She will enjoy the fact that you put the effort into something like this for her.
As you eat the dinner be a gentleman and remind her why she needs to be with you.
Go Out! One of the biggest complaints girlfriends have is that they do not get to go out enough.
Take her out to a dance club even if that is not your thing.
Try to mix up the things you go to between things you like and things she likes.
You do not have to go out every night.
Once or twice a week will be great! It's the Little Things While grand gestures might work in the movies, they come off as being cheesy in real life.
Instead of filling her apartment with flowers, simply bring her a few flowers the next time you are going out with her.
Making sure you know which flowers she like will help your cause that much more.