Almost everybody in their lifetime has experienced a break up or two and most of the time they just have to learn how to move on with their life.
It is also a known fact that going through a break up may be one of the most stressful and trying times of your life, especially if the other person is someone you are not willing to let go.
But what if you are not one of those people that like to spend most of their time feeling sorry for themselves and you know you want your ex back, and you're willing to do a little work to see this happen.
The Major things to do in getting back with an ex is to first determine: Why exactly did this break up happen? Simple isn't it? You may not however, be able to go back into the past to try and erase whatever that may have influenced his/her decision to break up with you.
However, you can learn from that mistake and grow from it.
Now it's time to go on to the steps..
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First Step is to show your ex that you are confident in yourself.
Be sure no to make yourself seem needy when you finally approach them.
Keep in mind though, that although you stay confident, bare in mind you want to deliver the correct message.
Second Step: Keep contact with your ex at minimum.
That means no accidental meetings that just so happens to occur ever so often.
This might carry off the image that you are needy and as stated above, we definitely do not want that.
This also rules out phone calls and emails, remember keep all contact at minimum.
Third Step is to go out and have some fun.
You read right.
Go out.
Enjoy.
This is a sure way to get your ex to think about you.
We must keep in mind that humans are selfish beings naturally.
Its not that your ex doesn't want you to be happy.
But they are intrigued by your happiness when they think that naturally you are suppose to be sad and helpless without them.
Fourth Step: Now is the time to make contact.
All this hanging out with friends and keeping contact to a minimum are ways to give you both time to think.
It also gives you more time to become the confident being you were around the ex.
Set up a meeting to talk with your ex is the best way to sort out the problem(s) that the two of you are having.